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. Sikh marriage
Anand Karaj is the prescribed form of Sikh marriage, the
words literally translate as 'Blissful Union'. The Sikh
marriage is a joyous and festive family event. Rather informal
in nature the Sikh marriages believe in resting the ultimate
choice with the bride and the groom. The Reht Maryada which is
The Official Sikh Code of Conduct specifies that no thought
should be given to the perspective spouses caste, race or
lineage. As long as both the boy and girl profess the Sikh
faith and no other faith they may be joined in wedlock by the
Anand Karaj ceremony. The Reht Maryada strictly forbids any
sort of dowry arrangement and consulting horoscopes or
following any other superstitions pertaining to determining a
wedding date or time. An engagement ceremony called the 'kurmai' is not required but is sometimes performed typically
one week before the wedding. It is usually conducted in the
Gurdwara or at the home of the groom. It involves Ardas (the
common Sikh prayer), Kirtan (hymns from Sri Guru Granth Sahib)
and langar (common meal) if performed in the Gurdwara. If
performed at home, the brides family visit the house of the
groom for a short time. In both cases the groom is usually
presented with a kara (bangle), kirpan or Indian sweets. The
brides family in turn are presented with the wedding dress
clothes and sweets for the bride. The Sikh marriage is
typically a three day affair which begins with the Baraat
(groom's family and friends) setting off for the bride's house
in the evening. They are received, entertained and hosted by
the bride's family and spend the night at her house. The
following day the ceremony takes place at the local Gurdwara
or at the bride's home. Following the religious ceremonial
festivities, song and dance continue throughout the day till
the groom and his family departs with the bride the following
day. In the west because of time constraints wedding are
usually conducted in a day that it is over in a day or maximum
two. Usually the wedding ceremony is performed in the morning
followed by a dinner and dance banquet in a hall or hotel at
night, or the religious ceremony and banquet take place on
consecutive days. Anand Karaj is the prescribed form of Sikh
marriage, the words literally translate as 'Blissful Union".
The Sikh marriage is a joyous and festive family event. Rather
informal in nature the Sikh marriages believe in resting the
ultimate choice with the bride and the groom. The Reht Maryada
which is The Official Sikh Code of Conduct specifies that no
thought should be given to the perspective spouses caste, race
or lineage. As long as both the boy and girl profess the Sikh
faith and no other faith they may be joined in wedlock by the
Anand Karaj ceremony. The Reht Maryada strictly forbids any
sort of dowry arrangement and consulting horoscopes or
following any other superstitions pertaining to determining a
wedding date or time. The Anand Karaj ceremony can be
performed in any . |